I have a beautiful girlfriend. Everything about her is simply put, amazing. Her outlook on life is seemingly one of a kind and has a phenomenal way of going about her life. She is selfless and I would go as far as to claim she is pure of heart and soul. Kind, compassionate, understanding and willing to go out of her way to help others. She is talented to nearly all ends and is frighteningly brilliant. When she smiles the room is utterly captivated by her elegant aura. Last but not least, she has a gorgeous figure.
And with such an amazing girlfriend, you have the trouble of having to fend off a seemingly never ending force of men and sometimes women who want her. It is frustrating, difficult and tiresome. But, despite this, you should not and in my opinion can not let this get inside your head and get the better side of who you are. I know that there are several guys who are close to her who call themselves friends, but I know at any moment if she and I were to have a hard situation in our relationship, they would drop whatever they are doing and strive to be at her beck and call and try to replace me at all cost or deal with being friendzoned and try another day.
It sucks. Knowing that you know their true intentions and why they are there. Their sights set so keenly so, lustfully imagining what they will about what they would do with her, or fantasizing what they would do together.
You can't worry yourself with this. Because she is with you, or he is with you, and you are with them. You love your relationship partner, and they love you, or if you aren't at that love point yet you are there enough for one another. I trust her better judgement and will not dare say that she can't hang out with *insert name* or *insert group* because I do not control her life and she doesn't control mine. We live with trust, believe in being honest and forthcoming with one another and will fight to make what we have last, while living each day in harmony and happiness.
End rant, I'm tired.
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